Lead Up to Christmas Weekend

Monday Diane went off to visit a friend and I had a chill day to recover from the hectic weekend with grandchildren and the Christmas get-together. Tuesday morning I was woken when the alarm beeped at three to say that the power had gone off. I sorted it out and went back to bed hoping it would be back on by the time the alarm went off. No such luck! I phoned Eskom to be informed that technicians were working on the problem and they had no idea how long it would take to fix. Thank goodness for gas. Hubby and I chilled under the trees with our morning cuppa before having fruit and yoghurt. After Hubby left for work I started some cleaning. By ten the power was still off so Diane and I decided to spend the rest of the day at Eastgate and see a movie. We booked to see ‘Spud’ and then went to the Bread Basket for lunch and a coffee. We both enjoyed the movie which was funny and sad. We did some shopping before returning home, glad, to find the power back on. I did some cleaning before we settled to an evening in front of the TV. Wednesday I got down to doing my statements with Diane’s help to scan and fax as I finished. By lunchtime they were done and we did some cleaning before leaving to fetch Travis and Josh. Their nursery school was closing for the Christmas period and as Ali was still working there was no one to look after them. We were back around five and chilled outside under the tree where they ate their supper. Hubby also ate before getting ready for a meeting he had. On the way to the meeting he dropped Diane off at Donovan’s brother where they were having a farewell for Wayne and Bec. The boys and I chilled outside until just before seven when I bathed them. Travis was asleep soon after and Josh followed fairly quickly. I spent the evening watching TV until Hubby and Diane arrived back from their evening out. Both had had a good time. Once I got to bed my peaceful evening changed. Josh is teething at the moment and he kept waking up miserable. It was fairly easy to soothe him back to sleep but it meant we were both rather exhausted by morning. The boys and I were up before six chilling under the trees having a morning cuppa. Hubby joined us and we ate breakfast together outside. Travis loves being outside and to him the times under the trees are The Best. Hubby has put up the bird feeders again and we have lots of entertainment watching them feed. At one time there were about a dozen Red-headed finches eating above our heads. Even Josh was watching them eat. Once breakfast was over we all got ready to go to the airport to say bye to Wayne and Bec. No sooner were we in the car than Travis and Josh were asleep and only woke up as we parked. We went straight to Capello where we were to meet Donovan and them. We were busy with our milkshakes when they arrived. After saying ‘Hi’ they all went off to book in. Hubby took Travis for a walk around while we waited for them to come back. Donovan joined us shortly after saying he had left them putting their cases through. We all had a great farewell together over lunch with Hubby and Donovan disappearing together periodically to have a smoke outside. Yes. Hubby is still smoking and enjoying it! Men! We left just before one when Bec and Wayne went through to the Departure area.
Once home we spent the rest of the day chilling outside with the boys. Both fell asleep fairly early but it was another very restless night with Josh. Friday morning was up early again chilling outside with the boys. Hubby went in to the workshop for a couple of hours before returning for lunch which we ate outside under the trees. All the fresh air and exercise makes for two tired little boys at night. About three I bathed Travis and got him ready to leave for home. Dane and I loaded the car with all their things. Travis was very tired after all his running around and was asleep before we were even out the yard. I drove slowly to give him time to have a fair sleep. We arrived at Ali just after four and after dropping off the boys and their things we were soon on the way home. Thanks to the Christmas season the roads were very quiet and we were home at five in time to chill with a glass of wine. I quickly vacuumed everywhere ready for the weekend and after supper we chilled in front of the TV. The weekend has been spent chilling and catching up on sleep. We feel almost normal again. Today Hubby has popped into the workshop to see that all is OK and I am cleaning ready for the week ahead.
Hope you all had A Great Christmas. Have a Great Week.

Our Christmas Weekend Pics

A Great Week

It has been a really good week and it has just flown past. The beginning was busy with cleaning and sorting out office work ready for the annual shut-down on Wednesday. Wednesday morning we had a downpour and as we couldn’t do much at home Diane and I went shopping for our final Christmas shop. It was clear when we got home mid afternoon but by evening the rain had set in again. The rain didn’t stop until Thursday lunchtime by which time we had had 180mm on the plot. Elsewhere there was flooding with many low-lying areas under water. The garden is starting to look good again though some parts are still trying to recover from the winter frosts.
Friday Diane and I finished the last of the cleaning before we all went in to have supper at Donovan’s Mom. We all had a very pleasant evening with great food and wine. The main course was curried prawns which were absolutely delicious. Wayne and Bec came back to the plot for the weekend and it was almost midnight by the time we had finished catching up on all the news about their Safari trip. Saturday morning Diane and the two of them went for a cycle after having a big breakfast -compliments of Hubby. Once they were back they sorted themselves out before we went in to The Glen for them to do some more shopping and to get their pics developed. We were back mid afternoon in time for the arrival of Ali and the boys. We all chilled outside in the Play area before they decided to play cricket. I watched Josh and made a casual supper while they played their game. Wayne had actually found his cricket bat he had left here when they immigrated to Oz which had sparked the idea of the game. Once supper was over and the boys were asleep we did the final wrapping of presents before watching some TV. We all went to bed around midnight.
Sunday I was up early for my chill coffee just as Hubby was leaving for a Piston Ring Meet. No sooner had I finished then Ali and the boys joined me for a light breakfast before starting the food for lunch.
Between Ali and myself we had all the salads made and the meat cooked by eleven. Diane and I set the table with all the Christmas decorations and crackers under the car port. When Hubby got back from his Meet we exchanged presents. Val, Colin and the girls arrived to join us for our early Christmas lunch and once all the food was put out we all tucked in. The afternoon was spent enjoying the food, wine and excellent company. It’s hard to believe that it will be a while before we can all be together again. Wayne and Bec go back home this week and Kim is leaving on Sunday for her two year internship in Cape Town. Val and family and Ali and the boys left about half three just as we had a shower of rain. Wayne and Bec packed their bags ready to spend the last few days of their holiday with Donovan while Diane and I chilled in front of the computer and Hubby watched some TV. When the rain cleared we tidied up outside before taking Wayne and Bec into Alberton to Donovan. The rest of the evening was spent watching movies.
Bye for now. Have a fantastic Christmas.

Chilling with Wayne

Wayne and Bec arrived back here on Tuesday morning and after unloading their bags joined us on a trip to Heidelberg. In Heidelberg we visited the Gold and Diamond Shop which they both enjoyed spending ages browsing through everything. We had a late lunch in the tea garden where we were entertained by a tortoise and a family of Silke bantams. Bec took loads of pics and was feeding the tortoise grape leaves and whole grapes. It was cute to see it munching the grapes. We all enjoyed our lunch of Italian bread open sandwiches and drinks. After lunch Bec did some shopping for her family and we then drove around looking at the historical buildings like the old jail. Before returning home we drove through Henley-on-Klip as Wayne wanted to show Bec the village and the Weir.
On Wednesday we went into Chinatown and Eastgate where Bec was thrilled to do some more shopping for herself and for her family. Wednesday evening we went back into town to the Italian Club where the Model Car Club was having the last meeting of the year. It was a lovely chill evening having a good meal and wine while Hubby got himself a couple of cars to add to his collection.
Thursday was a quiet day with Wayne and Hubby playing with the old cars. They had a drive in the blue Plymouth and then tried to start the Studebaker but had no joy. Hubby was most upset as usually it starts straight away but with him being wheelchair bound for so long he has neglected the cars and he thinks the fuel pump must have packed up. Thursday afternoon Hubby took Wayne and Bec down to the Klip River to try some fishing as Wayne has been wanting to fish in a river for ages now. These poor Ozzies really miss out on a lot of things. They both enjoyed the experience even though they didn’t catch anything.
Friday morning Wayne and Bec packed their things ready to go to Donovan and after loading the car we left for The Glen. First stop was Dischem where they bought themselves insect repellents ready for their trip to Mpumalanga on Sunday. After some more shopping we made our way to The Ocean Basket where I had my favourite of Prawns and they had Sushi. Bec is really having a good time eating out here as she finds the service and food standards excellent compared to Oz. Once the meal was over we made our way to the car and left to drop Wayne and Bec off at Donovan’s place. Diane and I returned home where we chilled for the rest of the afternoon. Hubby went out to a car meeting and Diane went out with a friend to see the latest Harry Potter movie. I had a leisurely evening doing some cleaning in the cottage in between watching TV.
Saturday both Diane and I were feeling rather grim with infected sinuses so didn’t do much at all. Sunday we went into Alberton City where we met Ali and Travis to do some Christmas shopping. We were home lunchtime and after dosing up and resting I started cleaning the lounge. All the curtains have been washed and once windows are clean I can put them back and do the rest of the room. Yay the place will look good for Christmas and the New Year.
All for now. Have a great week and drive carefully if you are going away.

Another pic from Gold Reef Fun

Wayne's Arrival

Wayne and his girlfriend arrived Tuesday morning after spending a day with Donovan. It was good to see him again and to finally meet Rebecca who is a lovely person. Wayne is very lucky to have her for his girlfriend. After a catch-up chat under the tree over tea and coffee Diane took the two of them off to Eastgate where they all spent the rest of the day having a great shopping spree. I spent the day doing office work and relaxing after the hectic cleaning spree. Wednesday they all went to Gold Reef City for the day enjoying themselves at the funfair and casino before doing some more shopping on the way home. Bec is really enjoying shopping thanks to our prices in comparision to Oz. The evening was spent chilling under the trees having a braai. On Thursday morning Ali phoned to say Travis was sick with bronchitis again so Hubby went through to fetch him to stay so that I could look after him and get him better. Wayne and Bec spent the day relaxing and doing washing in between driving the Sunbeam and going for a drive in the DKW with Hubby. They left about half three to go back to Donovan ready for their weekend in Sun City. Diane and I went into Meyerton to get Travis’s medication and some shopping. Friday was a day of playing with Travis and giving him his medication. Saturday morning Travis was still sleeping when I left to go fetch Josh as I had offered to look after the boys while she went for her Staff Christmas Party. When we got back Hubby and Travis were playing in the Play Area in the Sandpit. Diane left about eleven to go to friends and Hubby left about twelve for his monthly Tit Meet. The rest of the day was an exhausting round of looking after the boys, putting them to sleep, feeding them and keeping them amused. To have a Toddler and a Baby the main ingredient in coping is energy and at my age it soon runs out. It was a relief when Diane and Hubby were home to help look after Josh while I bathed Travis and got him ready for bed. Diane took Josh as he was wide awake while I got Travis to sleep. Sunday I was up half five with Josh and had seen to him with his bottle and breakfast as well as had a chill coffee outside before Travis woke up. Hubby made a bacon and egg breakfast which we enjoyed under the trees as it was a lovely day with plenty of birds around. Ali arrived about eleven and after eating her breakfast chilled with us before leaving for home. Once they were gone I started to clean up after Hurricane Travis and when the cottage was done relaxed a couple of hours before finishing the rest of the house. Diane and I watched the Sunday night Movie and after all was cleaned and ready for the week ahead we finally went to bed about midnight.

Pics from Botannical Garden Outing

Back Again with the latest News

Life has just flown past the last few months. My time has not been my own and it has been difficult keeping up with the blog. Hubby’s recuperation time is finally at an end and he has been good with following Dr’s orders. His sugar levels have been stable and he has rested his feet. Towards the end he was getting very frustrated with not been able to do much or drive himself. I must admit it was difficult for me too as I was doing a lot of driving around and going backwards and forwards to the workshop and neglecting the house. Hubby has had his follow up visit to the Dr who was happy with his progress. He is able to drive himself around and is back at work part-time. He only spends a couple of hours a day there as his feet start aching very quickly and he comes home to put them up. There is one thing I am VERY ANGRY about and that is – he has started smoking again. He went out about a week ago to a Tit Car Meet and had a smoke while out and keeps sneaking a smoke outside. I was really furious and hardly spoke to him for a few days. He has said he will stop and I really hope he does for his health’s sake.
Diane and I have been to the Movies a couple of times to see ‘Despicable Me’ and ‘You Again’. Both of which we really enjoyed. We made the most of our outings with having a meal and a good shopping spree while we were out. I can’t wait to go for a hike again as I have really missed going and enjoying the Suikerbos Route.
Ali started work at the beginning of November and while learning she has to work Saturdays to do the training so we have looked after the Boys a couple of times. The first Saturday we had a get-together at Lifestyle with Pauline, Val and Kim so they could finally see Josh. We had a super time over breakfast catching up with each other’s news. Ali joined us just after twelve and after saying Hi and Bye to Val and Kim she had lunch with Diane and I. Once she left with the boys Diane and I did some shopping before returning home. Last week we picked the boys up and spent the morning at the Botanical Gardens. It was a lovely relaxing time as Diane and I spent most of the time chilling on the grass under the trees while Josh slept and Travis ran around tiring himself out. A tortoise came out of the bushes and was walking around eating the grass. Travis was thrilled and walked around with it until it went back into the bushes. Ali joined us there for lunch and we spent a pleasant hour or so chilling and listening to the birds – there certainly were plenty around in the trees.
I have managed to do some of my annual spring clean with only a few rooms left to do. We had a contractor in to do some much needed repairs to the cottage. Now that it is finished it really looks good though it was most frustrating while they were working. On the Wednesday night we moved the furniture out of the main bedroom into the small bedroom and the lounge furniture into our lounge. The workers only pitched on Friday as they were busy elsewhere and spent most of the time loafing as they didn’t have the right tools. This meant they weren’t finished and had to come back on the Monday. Monday they came late and didn’t finish again. Tuesday they didn’t turn up at all and instead came on Wednesday. This time they had the wrong size ceiling board and only late morning was the right size bought to the house. Once again they didn’t finish and Thursday morning the job was eventually finished. Friday we quickly painted the main bedroom and on Saturday I was finally able to start making it habitable. Saturday we painted the toilet as it was looking rather the worse for wear. The rest of the weekend was spent moving the furniture back, cleaning and hanging the clean curtains back up. Sunday evening while I was in there finishing off the lounge a bat came in and kept flying around. I opened everywhere up so it could fly out and had a drink while I waited for it to go. When I peeped back in I couldn’t see it so closed up and carried on. While arranging the flowers I turned around and found it flying around again. It flew behind the curtain and I closed them trapping it against the window and opened the windows again. I left it and we had supper. When I went back it had gone and I was able to carry on until about twelve. Monday I was able to finally clean the house and by bedtime (twelve) it was finally decent again. Wayne will be here tomorrow so at least I am ready in time for his visit with his girlfriend. We are looking forward to seeing him again and to meet his girlfriend.

Latest from the Plot

Life has been rather hectic the last few weeks. We have entertained plenty and also done some visiting ourselves. We spent a day at the Vaal visiting Barney for lunch. The weather was perfect and we took the Sunbeam for an outing though on the way home Hubby was over enthusiastic when he pulled the handbrake and snapped it. Luckily there was very little traffic and no robots from the Vaal to the Plot. Ali and the boys came through for a day bringing Bob and Sylvia. We had a very pleasant day chatting and enjoyed our lunch together. Their visit must have been lucky as we had our first rains of the season with a downpour just as they drove off. On Saturday Diane and I took Hubby to Suikerbosrand where we went on the Wheelchair Trail. The Trail is only a km long but when it is going up and you are pushing a wheelchair it can be rather exhausting. Diane and I took turns in pushing and when we got to the top sat for a long time enjoying the scenery and peace of the area. There were plenty of birds in the trees and we used the binoculars to try and spot them. Hubby really enjoyed himself. Going down was also tiring as we had to hang on to the wheelchair to make sure it didn’t go too fast downhill. The hike was even more exhausting then doing the 4.5km hike but we enjoyed having a hike again as the last hike was before Hubby’s op.
Time has really flown past and I can’t believe Christmas is just around the corner. Wayne and his girlfriend are coming to visit from the 29 November until the 23 December.
I really need to organise myself as usually by this time I have done most of my Christmas shopping and am on track for the end of the year. Looking after Hubby has kept me busy and distracted from time passing. Also back and forth to the workshop has taken a fair amount of time. It’s hard to believe it is almost two months since his op and only another month till we know what the Dr’s decision will be. Hubby’s foot is doing well but we are both disappointed as the healing process seems to have slowed down drastically. There seems to have been little improvement since last week though at least it is still looking good. It is just the last little part that needs to close now. Weather wise we are still having gale force winds and plenty of thunder and lightning though not much rain at all. The mornings are too windy and cold to sit outside under the trees and I really am missing being able to sit there and chill while soaking up the peace. My hectic life at the moment is starting to take its toll - not as young as I used to be – and I keep falling asleep in front of the TV. I wake up and find I have missed half of my show which is most irritating. Thinking of meals for Hubby also is getting to the stage of running out of ideas for something different. Sometimes he gets sick of having so many veg but that’s Dr’s orders and at least Diane and I love them. I tend to cook extra so that some meals are leftovers which make things easier for me. Apart from that it is great having Hubby around all the time as we have plenty of time to sit and chat. Pushing his wheelchair around is also keeping me fit. The biggest problem now is Hubby’s boredom with doing nothing and he has started doing odd jobs around the place. I stress every time as he stands to do things which sometimes take nearly an hour such as when he replaced the outside light on the Rondaval which had stopped working. He had to drill new holes and fit the new fitting which seemed to tske forever.Afterwards I made him rest for the rest of the day and not even sit in his chair. He is now talking about going up into the roof to see what thermostat is on the geyser to get a new one. He is crazy if he thinks I will let him.
Well that’s all for now. Have a great week and fabulous weekend.

News of the Week

Ali and boys arrived on Sunday morning just in time to join us on our outing to the Circus Coffee Shop for breakfast with Sandy, Godfrey and Kirsten. We arrived just after ten and had a super morning chilling over our breakfast. It was good to be out with friends and family and the time just flew past. It was almost one when we left going via the shops to stock up on things for the week. The rest of the day was spent relaxing and enjoying time with Travis and Josh.
Monday morning Ali took Hubby in for his wound check-up while I looked after the boys. Loraine was very happy with the progress of his wound and removed the KCI as there is nothing left for it to work on. The hole is almost closed up and must now finish closing naturally. Hubby was really pleased to have the machine removed and feels free now that he is not attached to it. The best part is not having that noise constantly going all night while trying to sleep. Late Monday afternoon we went into Alberton to meet up with Diane as well as Angie, Margaret, Julie and their boys to have Pizza at The Harvard Cafe. It was an opportunity for them to see Josh for the first time. We had a great family get-together and Travis really enjoyed playing with Byron and Jared.
Tuesday we all had a fairly busy day. Ali was feeling very energetic and cooked a whole lot of food for us to freeze and use as needed. Hubby and I looked after the boys between us, taking it in turns with Josh and Travis. Travis as usual spent most of his time outside playing and Josh gurgled happily with whoever spent time with him. He is three months old now and really cute. He loves to gurgle and laugh watching everything around him. In between I started my invoices and statements with Ali also helping with them while the boys were asleep. I carried on till late with my statements and scanning to e-mail. I actually fell asleep a couple of times while sitting in front of the computer and eventually went to bed about one in the morning.
Wednesday Ali took Hubby in for his next check-up while I played with the two little ones. Loraine was very happy as Hubby’s wound was still doing so well. Once Hubby and Ali were back we had lunch (Ali’s efforts) before we going into Meyerton to do some shopping and get a new back-pack for Travis for Nursery School. We got back in time to have a cappuccino before Ali bathed the boys and left for home. After they left I quickly vacuumed around the place before having my glass of wine. It was very quiet and peaceful on our own but we were already missing them as we both enjoy having them around.
Thursday was spent finishing off the last few statements and doing some cleaning. Friday we went in to Alberton again for Loraine to check Hubby’s foot. The wound is healing beautifully and looks really good. Loraine will be away next week so showed me how to clean and dress the wound. I hope it keeps healing so well while I am doing it. We went off to the workshop to check on things and I faxed the final few statements. We went shopping to get things needed at the workshop before stopping at Diane to pick up an Ottoman set she had bought herself.
Saturday we left early for the Pride March and after picking up a friend of Diane’s we arrived at Zoo Lake at half nine. Ali and the boys joined us shortly after and after putting them into their prams we went up to where the Parade starts. The day was already very hot with the heat wave that has just started. The parade started earlier than usual due to the heat. The floats were the usual colourful display with the most amazing costumes imaginable. Diane and her friend followed the parade around but Ali and I decided it was too hot to walk and found seats in the shade where we waited for the procession to arrive back. Travis really enjoyed himself and was fascinated by all the colour and music. We had a great day and really enjoyed the vibe of the event.
Sunday was a relaxing day with visits from Priscilla and Justine as well as Barney and Crystal. All for now. Have a fabulous week.

Hubby’s Progress

Everywhere is looking so good with all the new fresh, green leaves growing on all the trees and plants. The garden is starting to look like a garden again and not a desert. We just need some rain now. Daily we have the winds and dust causing havoc with the sinus problems but no rain here yet.
The daily routine is some cleaning with a bit of office work and looking after Hubby. The major part being looking after Hubby and his sugar levels. I’m pleased to say that the small meals with a snack in between really does keep the sugar levels down as his levels are now a constant of around five.
The best news of all is how well his wound is healing. Hubby is still hooked up to the KCI and we are going to the wound specialist three times a week. The difference in the wound each time she changes the dressing and checks the wound is unbelievable. It is closing up so quickly and looking so good. When we think of what it looked like and the size of the wound when the second op was done we just can’t believe how small it now is. The hole is almost closed and is healing so cleanly with no jagged edges but as a smooth rounded area. Both Hubby and I are so happy and pleased with his progress and I’m really happy as Hubby is so determined to keep doing as instructed. He is resting his feet as much as possible with no walking at all and eating properly. The best of all is that he has still not smoked since before his first op. The area on the other foot where he had the ulcer is completely clear except for a spot of dry skin which I massage cream into to keep a callus from forming. Apparently if a callus forms an ulcer could develop again and we are both determined to keep that from happening. Lorraine, the wound specialist, has told us that once the three months are up the Dr will assess Hubby and maybe, just maybe, he will be able to do an op opening the veins in his legs. We are both hoping this will be possible as it would mean that Hubby’s feet would then be back to normal with no chance of ulcers developing again. He would then be back to walking as normal and not having to be off his feet as we originally thought. We were looking at motorised scooters but will hold off buying anything until we know what the Dr’s verdict will be. The good thing about this is how it has motivated Hubby into following Dr’s orders.
Well that is all for now as nothing exciting has been happening lately but this will change as Ali is coming to visit for a few days seeing that the next week is a school holiday. Best of all is the fact that it is the Annual Pride Parade next Saturday and Diane and I are going to get some pics of the colourful event. The vibe and colour is always great.
Have a Great Week.

Latest Update on Hubby

Diane and I were in Alberton early Saturday morning to visit Hubby and do some shopping. We spent most of the morning visiting and went back to the plot after lunch to pick up more injections for Hubby. Ali phoned and asked us to meet her somewhere as she needed a break and some me time. After fetching the injections we met up at The Glen where we spent a couple of hours chatting and enjoying ourselves at the Mugg n Bean. Diane and I returned to the hospital where we spent some more time with Hubby before going home to have an evening in front of the TV.
Sunday we were up fairly early as we were off to the annual `Wheels at the Vaal’ event. After washing the Sunbeam to use we left to go to the Vaal arriving about half ten. We had a great morning chatting to friends and checking out all that was on display from stunning old cars to steam engines and camel rides. Diane took plenty of pics to show Hubby and after having a picnic lunch with Sandy and Godfrey we left for the hospital. Hubby was happy to hear all about the event and enjoyed looking at the pics though he was feeling a bit down from spending so much time in hospital. It was almost dark when we got back home and we spent the evening getting sorted for the week ahead and watching TV.
Monday Diane left for her week in Alberton and about eight Hubby phoned all disappointed and upset because the DR had told him the earliest he could leave was Wednesday as they need to take a swab and get the results ( 2 days in the lab) before knowing what further treatment will be needed. I spent most of the morning starting a spring clean of the bedroom ready for his return. When I got to the hospital late morning Hubby was waiting for the swab to be taken so his foot could be re-bandaged. After about half an hour his foot was attended to and the bandage and KCI re-attached. Poor Hubby was really feeling down about having to stay until Wednesday. I spent time with Hubby cheering him up until I started to feel ill. The longer I sat the worse I felt until I just had to leave as I was scared I could infect Hubby and delay his leaving hospital. By the time I reached home I felt really ill and dosed up and had an early night.
Tuesday morning I woke up with the worst sinus attack I have ever had as well as a tight, painful chest. My head was pounding, my ears were aching and I had the worst sore throat ever. I phoned Hubby to tell him I was staying away and discovered I had lost my voice. He was very upset and worried and I told him not to worry as I intended sleeping and dosing up. I started some anti-biotics and spent most of the day napping in between finishing cleaning the bedroom. Wednesday Hubby needed clean pyjamas and help to change so I went in meeting Ali there as she also wanted to visit and see how he was doing. I quickly took her shopping to choose herself a birthday present. The results of his swab had shown he had no infection left and the Dr was now waiting for authorisation for his anti- biotic course from the medical aid before he could leave. I kept well away from Hubby with my germs and was home not long after lunch to rest some more as I still felt so bad. The rest of the week was spent either in bed trying to get better or cleaning ready for his return.
Friday we finally received the authorisation and I fetched Hubby at lunchtime after first stopping at the workshop. The rest of Friday and Saturday was spent looking after Hubby and dosing myself up as I was still so ill. I kept clear of Hubby as much as possible as I was petrified I could infect him and cause problems with his foot.
Sunday I woke up feeling much better and for the first time since Monday had had clear head and no pain in the chest though I still have a slight cough and still can’t go anywhere without a good supply of tissues. Diane and I decided to take Hubby out for a bit seeing as he has been confined so long and we left late morning for Eastgate. We had a pleasant time wandering around the shops with Hubby in his wheelchair (It’s great to park at the entrance door in the wheel chair parking) before stopping for some lunch. Diane and I had pasta while Hubby had a Surf and Turf – we let him spoil himself a bit. We all had a rock shandie with the meal and then Diane and I had a cappuccino. After the meal we left for home as I didn’t want Hubby to overdo things though it was great to see how the outing had cheered him up.
Monday we were in Alberton early to see the wound specialist to change the dressing on Hubby’s foot and check on progress. She was very happy to see how well it seems to be healing. He is still using the KCI as the Dr doesn’t want it off until the wound has closed and a covering has started to develop. His next appointment is on Friday with the wound specialist. After leaving there we met Ali and the boys and after shopping for a special lunch for her birthday we returned to the plot. We had a lovely day together and Ali only left just before five to return home. I cleaned up a bit and then we had a lazy evening together before going to bed quite early as we were both rather tired.
Sorry to take so long to do the blog but being ill really took it out of me and looking after Hubby and his diet is a full time job.
All for now. Have A Great Week.

Pics from the 60th

Second Operation and Hospital Time

Tuesday I visited Hubby who was very cheerful and in between I stopped at the workshop to check on things. All was fine so I went down to Hubby before going home but after getting a call from the workshop I returned to get supplies they needed. First Vusi and I went up to get sawdust that’s needed for the moils etc. before I went to get oil for the hammer. Diane and I visited again in the evening after stopping to do some shopping on the way down to the hospital.
Wednesday I left the plot just before eight so that I would be there for when Hubby came out from the op. To my surprise he was still waiting to go to theatre so we chatted and did crosswords until they eventually came for him at half ten. This time he was in Room 4 so the bed could be wheeled out for theatre. I went to the hospital Cafe for some breakfast and coffee and then carried on with the crossword and reading the magazine. Hubby was bought back to his room just before twelve- he had been so long as he had to lie and wait in line for his turn to be operated on. To his delight within minutes his lunch arrived and he tucked in immediately. I stayed with him until nearly two to see if the Dr would come and see him but unfortunately he was still busy in theatre. I returned to the plot and went back at five to fetch Diane and go back to the hospital. The Dr had been to see Hubby and told him that they had cleared out another infection they had found in the wound and that he would need very strong anti biotics to clear the one they had discovered out of his body. Tablets will not be strong enough and he would need to go to the hospital daily for an injection for at least a month. Hubby was very down and Diane said he was obviously hungry. When I asked what his supper had been he said it was some awful concoction. Hubby’s stomach sure rules his life. Diane and I decided to go across to Mike’s and have starters. It was pleasant to sit and relax. I had calamari and rice while Diane had mushrooms and we ordered chicken strips for Hubby. When we took Hubby’s food back he immediately brightened and by the time he had finished he was smiling and cheerful. Amazing what food can do!
Thursday morning I left the plot just after eight to go through to Ali for Travis’s birthday. She had phoned and said that Travis had been really sick with a temperature and coughing during the night. When I arrived at her we had a cappuccino before taking his cake to him at school so he could have it with his classmates. Travis was thrilled to see us and really enjoyed being sung to by everyone but as he was feeling lousy more than ready to leave. We took him straight to the Flora Clinic where both he and Ali got checked. Travis was diagnosed with pneumonia and Ali with bronchitis and they were given prescriptions. We stopped to get the medication and buy some lunch from Woolies before going back to Ali’s place. Josh was tired and while Ali saw to him I unpacked the car and started lunch. Travis needed to eat to take his medicine so I quickly made him a sandwich but he wasn’t very hungry so Ali gave him some of the chocolate mousse we had got him – it was his birthday and any food was good. After having a few mouthfuls we gave his medicine and Ali changed him into something cooler and settled him on the couch where he fell asleep. We ate our lunch and then I played with Josh on the bed till he fell asleep. I left about half two and went to visit Hubby at the hospital. Hubby was lying chatting to his friend Peter when I arrived and we chatted awhile before he left to collect a friend from the airport. The wound specialist, Lorainne, had been to see Hubby and had connected the KCI- vacuum pump- to his wound. This continuously pulses and draws blood down to the wound and keeps it clean while encouraging healing. I spent until just before five with Hubby before returning to the plot for the evening.
Friday was in Alberton early again as Hubby wanted help with washing and changing – not an easy process with a drip and the KCI attached. We sat chatting and having our drinks from the Cafe for about an hour before the Sister came in to discuss Hubby’s treatment. The hospital was waiting for authorisation from the medical aid for the KCI and anti biotics. The med aid had acknowledged receiving the letter but not replied. She asked me to contact them as this would probably speed up the process. I was going up to the workshop so I left immediately to make the phone call. At the workshop I paid the workers and then made the phone calls I needed to make and was pleased when they gave the authorisation number. While in the office I had a phone call from a customer wanting gwalas made so I asked Gino to get a price on the material for me and let me have the figures later. I went back to the hospital and gave the number authorising use of the KCI until the 10th September. After spending some more time with Hubby and Don who was visiting I left for home. I spent the afternoon cleaning and sorting things out the quote and order for the gwalas. I was too tired to return to Alberton and when Diane got home we had a glass of wine before having supper and relaxing for the rest of the evening.
Cheers and Have a Great Weekend.

Update on Hubby

Friday morning we were up early and ready to leave just after seven for Hubby’s check-up. Once at the hospital the Sister took Hubby into the ward and removed his bandage before leaving him for the Sister –in-Charge to come and check on the wound. While we were on our own Hubby took the covering off and we had a good look at the wound. We were both surprised and pleased to see how well it was closing up. The Dr and Sister -in-Charge bustled in to look saying that the Sister who had removed the bandage had told them she had noticed pus in the wound. The Dr was concerned and forced the wound open so that it could get cleaned out – they couldn’t allow it to close while there was still infection. I left Hubby to them as I couldn’t face watching them work on the wound. The Sister forced padding into the wound to hold it open and filled the hole with ointment before bandaging it again. Both Hubby and I felt really down as we really had thought it was improving. The Dr. told Hubby to leave the dressing for the weekend and come back on Monday morning for them to check it again and monitor progress. We quickly popped in to the workshop to hand out payslips and check on things before returning home for Hubby to get back into bed. I started my invoicing and statements doing them in between nursing Hubby and sticking to a careful eating plan to keep his sugar levels down. I told him it is like looking after a baby as I give him something every three hours and any shopping etc has to be fitted in around these times. Hubby said he feels like a baby because if his food is not exactly on time he feels like crying. Diane was home after work and we had a glass of wine together before having supper. While I cleaned up afterwards she organised her things for the week ahead.
Saturday Ali came over to visit with the boys and Travis really kept us busy with his antics. Mid afternoon Diane’s client came over with products that she needed pics of for her website which kept Diane busy until after five. Once the client was gone she got herself ready for an evening out at a birthday party. I did some cleaning up after Hurricane Travis and then Hubby and I spent a quiet evening watching TV. I was too tired to do any office work.
Sunday morning Diane was home just after seven as she had stayed at Margaret because the party went on till late. She needed to check her pics and start to get them ready for her client. We left about half ten to meet up with everyone at the Botanical Gardens where Pauline had booked for her 60th birthday do. It was a lovely sunny day and the parking area was already almost full but luckily having the wheelchair gave certain privileges and we were able to park fairly close to the entrance. After a short wait we made our way down to the restaurant where we were able to have refreshments on the deck and catch up with everyone. David was the last to arrive as he had flown in from Durban and had come straight from the airport. Once everyone was there we toasted Pauline with champagne before sitting down at the table to start the meal. The meal was a self service carvery with starters, main course and desserts. The food was tasty and we all thoroughly enjoyed the meal. It was good to get together again and see family members that we hadn’t seen for years. Kelly had made the birthday cake which was a delicious chocolate cake though she was upset that the hot sun had melted some of the chocolate decorations around the sides. Nobody had expected the weather to get so hot so quickly. Spring has certainly arrived. Yay! It was good to be wearing summer clothes again. Both Hubby and I really enjoyed ourselves – it was good to chill after our stressful week. We left the restaurant about four and were home by five as we stopped to do some shopping on the way home. Diane got on to the computer to carry on with her pics and I finished my statements off before watching some TV. Hubby hasn’t been sleeping well as his leg has been throbbing and keeping him awake so he fell asleep after a light supper. I made his last snack at eleven and almost left him to sleep but the Dr had said the last snack at night is very important to keep his sugar levels down during the night so I woke him to eat it before Diane and I went to bed. She had finished her pics but was too tired to stop and put them on a disc.
Monday morning we were up early again and Diane quickly did her client’s disc for collection before leaving for work and her week at Margaret. Hubby and I left soon after for his wound check-up. While the Sister checked Hubby’s wound I went for coffee and breakfast. When I got back Hubby’s was sitting waiting for the Dr. The Dr checked the wound and got the Sister’s feedback. The wound still had a lot of pus and the area around the wound was starting to get red. The Dr said they needed to admit Hubby again to put him back onto an antibiotic drip to stop any bacteria developing again. The Sister dressed the wound again and Hubby was allowed to return home to pack his bag for his stay in hospital. We were both very upset as his sugar levels have stayed low – around four the last few days- and we had hoped this was a good sign. After packing his bag and giving Hubby his snack we returned to the hospital where Hubby was re-admitted. I spent a couple of hours with him before returning home to start e-mailing and faxing my statements. I finished the majority of them just before five in time to return to visit Hubby and see how things were progressing. Diane had finished work so I stopped to pick her up on the way to the hospital. When we got to the ward the Sister told us that Hubby was having his op on Wednesday morning. Doug was visiting and not long after he left the Sister came in to check on Hubby and spent time updating us on Hubby’s progress. They are going to cut deeper and clean everything infected out so his toe can heal. He has now been classed as high risk and needs to be monitored carefully before his op can be done. His kidneys are very bad – when the stent was put in after his heart attack iodine was pumped through the veins and this is what caused the damage. He was also given chest x-rays and an ECG during the afternoon. The wound specialist had also come to see him as he had asked about leech therapy. Leech therapy can only be used when there is dead and decaying skin and as Hubby’s wound has very little it will not work for him. After the Sister had gone Hubby laughed and said this is the first time he has felt so good and been told he is so bad. I’m glad he is staying positive and so cheerful.
Well that’s all for now. I will keep you updated on his progress.

Back Home

Wednesday morning I started doing some office work to get ready for statements later in the week. I phoned the hospital at eight and was told to phone back a bit later as the Dr. was still with Hubby. Within minutes Hubby phoned all excited as the Dr. said he could come home. I told him I would be there as soon as possible. I quickly got ready and rushed off to the shop to get dog food and then into Vereeiniging to get office cleaning supplies the workshop has run out of. Gino phoned to say he was with Hubby and could bring him home but I was already on the way to the workshop so he wanted to meet me at the workshop. I told him that under no circumstances could Hubby go there and I would be there as soon as possible. At the workshop I just ran in and gave them their supplies while collecting invoices before going down to the hospital. As I arrived Gino came running out and I left the car with him to go in and fetch Hubby. Before I could reach the doors Hubby came out with Doug and Crystal. I was really annoyed as he had already signed himself out and I was not able to get instructions from the Ward Sister on Hubby’s care. He gave me his prescription and release form to go collect the medication while he got into the car. Inside the chemist was a queue and I had a fair wait before getting Hubby’s medication. The Dr. has put him on two very strong anti-biotic for ten days with ProbiFlora as they are so strong. The stress of the last few days has taken its toll on both of us and we had a good fight on the way home. Luckily things blew over fairly quickly and all is back to normal. Hubby has been very good and is following instructions about keeping off his feet. I have got him back on six small meals a day – well three small meals and a snack in between. I am keeping to three hourly intervals and last night his sugar was 6.3 which is a relief. The Dr. told him 7 and below is the only acceptable level. Today - Thursday - I quickly went into Meyerton to do banking and get supplies of bandages, gauze, cotton wool etc. for dressing his wound. Late morning I helped him with the cleaning and change of dressing. His foot with the ulcer on the side is looking very good and is just a small cut. I told him it should heal perfectly as he isn’t walking on it at all. Where the amputation is Hubby had covered it up while I was busy elsewhere and I only held the dressing while he bandaged the foot. It does take some getting used to having the big toe missing. We had several serious talks during the day and I told him he will have to re-think the workshop. He will never be able to stand at any of the machines to work again. If he could sit and work fine but it is not feasible with most of them. He said he has realised this and is thinking long and hard about things. As far as I’m concerned he has worked hard all his life and it’s time he took things easy and enjoyed life.
Hubby had a good laugh about his hospital time and told me that one of the Sisters had told him he must never prick the top of his finger to take sugar levels as this can lead to loss of feeling in the hands. He was fine with this but wasn’t too impressed when a different one told him never to prick the ends of the fingers as they can become hard and callused and when he goes blind he will not be able to read Braille. He told her if he gets that bad he will do away with himself.
Hubby is feeling cheerful and positive at the moment and more than ready to follow instructions to keep of his feet. I hope this lasts and he doesn’t get too frustrated with doing nothing though he is planning on working on his watches while sitting in his wheel chair. The next big thing is his visit on Friday to the Dr. to have his wound checked to monitor the healing process. That’s all for now. All the calls and good wishes really help. Thanks a Million.

Hospital Time

Was just finishing off supper when Diane got home and we quickly ate before going back in to the hospital. Hubby was feeling a bit more cheerful about things but starting to feel like a pin cushion as they are checking his sugar levels every hour. The levels are up and down all the time and the insulin dosage is monitored very carefully to keep levels seven and below. Luckily Hubby had a good sleep on Thursday night as he will be having a very disturbed night tonight. Jocelyn came to visit Hubby as well and we had a pleasant chat together. We left about half eight for home and spent the rest of the evening watching TV and checking e-mails. Diane also started sorting things out for the week ahead as we will be busy backwards and forwards to the hospital over the weekend.
Saturday morning we were up early as we had lots to do. I did some washing while Diane finished sorting her things out. Ali phoned at nine to say she was leaving for the hospital and would meet us there at ten. She left the two boys with Leith. We quickly finished what we were doing and got ready to go in. It was just before ten when we arrived and as we couldn’t see Ali anywhere we went in to Hubby. Only Faizel was with him so I phoned to see where Ali was. She was stuck in traffic coming into Alberton but soon joined us. Diane and Ali went to get coffee/Milo from the Cafe and as they walked out Hubby whispered to me that the Dr. had been to see him earlier and things were not looking good at all. He didn’t want Ali to know as he didn’t want her getting upset. She has Josh to see to and being upset can affect him. Cordell phoned to see how things were and when I told him Hubby’s news he said he was coming up on the first available flight. Ali and Diane came back and Hubby told us all that when the Dr. had opened the wound it was still very infected so he had to remove the stitches to allow it to drain. This means the wound will take longer to heal as a layer must form over it. He will now have to stay off his feet for three months. He had asked the Dr. about cutting further up and he explained that this will cause all sorts of back and balance problems so we must just hope for the best. During the night his sugar had dropped to four so they took him off the insulin. When they tested him an hour later it was over eleven and he was put back on it and must stay on it now. We stayed with Hubby until about half twelve and then went shopping to get some reading matter for Hubby to keep him occupied. On the way back from the shop I ran in to give Hubby the magazines and asked him what else the Dr. had said but he said he was fine and there was nothing else. The three of us went over to Mike’s Kitchen and had some lunch. There lunchtime menu is excellent and we really did enjoy the meal. Ali ordered eisbein with chips, Diane had a pasta dish and I had prawns with rice. Before leaving we popped in to say bye to Hubby saying we would be back later when Cordell and Gino were there. Ali left for home and so did we. As we were leaving Alberton I suddenly remembered we had got the sms to say Diane’s phone was fixed and awaiting collection so we went back to collect it quickly. It was after three when we got home and I quickly got the spare room ready for Cordell to use and did some cleaning before getting ready to go back to the hospital. We were back at about half five finding Cordell and Gino there with Hubby who was enjoying Cordell’s company. It has been over a year since we were last together. Rodney and Jocelyn arrived to visit as well. We left at eight and took Cordell and Gino over to Mike’s. We must be their best customer at the moment! We had a great meal and chat together. It was after ten when we got home where we sat talking until midnight. When I got into bed I read awhile before putting out the light. No sooner had my head hit the pillow then my mind went into overdrive. All the pieces fell in to place. Hubby had said things didn’t look good. While talking to Cordell I remember hearing Hubby, in the background, say that in the anti-biotic drip were three separate bags each holding a different anti-biotic. When we first arrived in the morning he had looked upset. I now realised he must have septicaemia. That was me for the night. I tossed and turned until I gave up and got up to have a coffee early in the morning. I woke Diane fairly early and once Cordell surfaced I made him breakfast. He left not long after nine to spend time with Hubby. He took the Golf as Diane and I wanted to do some cleaning and Diane needed to pack her things to take into Margaret. We were ready to leave about half ten and went to do some shopping before joining Cordell at the hospital. The Dr. had been again and - according to Hubby - was pleased with the improvement in the wound and he should be going home on Monday. He had also explained why Hubby must stay off his feet. With the Diabetes the veins in his legs have narrowed which is why he has no feeling in his feet. Standing cuts the blood supply which means the wounds cannot heal. Explains why he hasn’t healed before. Hopefully this time he stays off his feet.During the night his sugar level had dropped to two and he needed glucose to get it back up.He is now off the insulin drip. We spent the day at the hospital having a sandwich about lunchtime at the hospital Cafe. About half four we went across to Mike’s again for a quick meal before returning to say bye to Hubby. Gino took Cordell back to the airport at six for his return flight. Diane and I went up to take her things to Margaret stopping to put petrol in her car on the way. After dropping her things off we drove in convoy back home where we had a fairly early night as we were both really tired.
Monday after Diane had left for work I put washing on and cleared the kitchen before phoning the hospital to see what was happening. The Sister in charge of the ward said the Dr had been and they were still worried about his wound and definitely no going home for him. The workshop needed stationery items so I got ready and went in to Alberton. After buying what was needed I dropped the things at the workshop before going to see Hubby. He was on his own and we had a good chat. He admitted how serious things were and that he does have septicaemia. I was cross and told him he must be honest with me about things. We spent the morning together and I left just before one to go back home. I finished the washing and did a bit of cleaning and some office work before going back in. I got there at five and chatted with Hubby a while before Diane and Doug arrived. After visiting Diane and I went across to Mike’s again. Definitely their best customer! Diane left for Margaret after our meal and I came home to do the blog. I am now off to bed for a well deserved sleep.
Cheers for now. Have a good week.

Recovery Time

Once breakfast and the dogs were seen to I quickly finished the blog before doing some washing. Godfrey arrived bringing the wheelchair he is loaning Hubby while he needs to recuperate. After he left I got ready to go into the hospital to see how Hubby was doing. Gino had already gone in early to see if Hubby had managed to talk the Dr into letting him go home. No such luck. When I got to the hospital Hubby was having a nap. He said he had hardly slept during the night so was rather tired. He gave me all the latest from the Dr’s visit. They had taken off the bandage where his toe was removed to check it and as there was a lot of blood he needed to stay an extra day to monitor things. He had been quite shocked to see the wound as it was nothing like he had expected - a lot worse- but he had had a really good look at it. The diabetic Dr had also been and told him his sugar levels must stay down so the wounds can heal. She gave a lot of advice about his diet which he will just have to follow. The biggest shock for him was the fact that he is not allowed to walk for two months. NOT AT ALL. The Dr wasn’t even happy to hear he has been walking to the loo but said that was the absolute extent of walking allowed. We spent a pleasant hour chatting before Don arrived to visit. Hubby’s lunch was bought and I left him with Don while I went for a quick sandwich. Don was still there when I got back and after a brief stop I left for the workshop to check on things. Violet had phoned to say she wouldn’t be in as she was at the hospital with her husband who was extremely ill. I told Vusi to man the office and keep Faizel working in the workshop as he is useless with the customers and paperwork. When I left the hospital I quickly ran over to the supermarket to get some things for Hubby’s diet and things the workshop needed. All was fine at the workshop and after giving them their necessities I left for home. It was almost two when I got back and I had a coffee and read a magazine to relax a bit before showering and changing to go back into Alberton. I waited until the gardener finished so I could let the dogs out before leaving to pick Diane up. It was just on five when I got there and Diane was out fairly quickly. We went round to fetch her things as she was coming back to the plot to sleep so I wouldn’t be on my own again. Not that it worries me as I have the dogs on the bed with me. We decided on going to Mike’s Kitchen again but first stopped at the hospital to see what Hubby wanted. He wanted something to read and sweets to suck as well as a chicken salad from Mike’s. We ran over to the shops where we found a magazine and diabetic sweets from the chemist. We dropped them off and then walked across to Mike’s. We had a shandie to start followed by a glass of wine for me and a spiced gold and coke for Diane. We ordered a pasta dish for Diane and I had a chicken fillet and chips. Gino joined us and had fish and chips. It was an enjoyable meal and afterwards Diane and I walked back while Gino drove around to meet us in the ward. Hubby’s friend Rodney Grey was there chatting and giving advice. His toes were amputated about a year ago so he can speak from experience. We were soon joined by Rod Norton so Hubby’s room was quite full. Once visiting hour was over the two Rods left and I made arrangements with Gino to fetch Hubby in the morning and bring him out to the plot. Once home Diane and I watched some TV before going to bed.
This morning I was up early to see Diane off to work. It was a really miserable overcast morning and once Diane had left the dogs and I went back to bed while I finished the last few pages of my book. Just after half seven Hubby phoned to let me know he wasn’t allowed to come home as he has an infection where the toe was amputated. He was very disappointed and upset. I quickly sorted a few things out before going in to see him. Gino was with him but left soon after. Hubby explained everything to me. When the Dr. took the bandage off he found it was oozing pus which is not a good sign and he prescribed a very strong anti-biotic given via a drip. The diabetic Dr. also came and his sugar levels are too high which means healing can’t take place. This could be caused by the shock to the body from the amputation and being inactive by lying in bed. She put him on a strong dosage of insulin which is being administered by drip. Until everything is cleared and sorted he cannot leave the hospital. They came and took a pus sample while I was there. Alec and Don came to visit and we had a very pleasant time chatting. The bell went for visitors to leave as visiting hour was up. They aren’t strict about this so we stayed and were left until things got a bit out of hand. The guys were telling hilarious stories from their past and as they were getting funnier so we got louder. Alex said bye and while Don stayed I quickly went to the shop to get some things for Hubby. When I got back Don had left and the Sisters were busy putting up the drip of anti-biotic. I waited till they had left to say bye but Hubby didn’t want me to leave and made me stay for another twenty minutes or so. He has decided to ask the Dr. to amputate more now while he is in hospital as he is sure the cut is too close to where the infection was. He doesn’t want to go through two months off his feet only to be told they must amputate higher up. I was upset but could understand how he feels and I can’t blame him. I hope the Dr. will go back to see him today so he can sort something out and not stress and make himself worse. I am home for the afternoon and once Diane gets home we will have an early supper before going back for visiting hour tonight.
All for now

Operation Day

Hubby and I decided on going out for the evening instead of cooking at home. We went into Alberton to the Piatto where we both had an excellent meal. I had my usual red wine with a sirloin and calamari combo while Hubby had a pork chop with veg and chips. The meal was finished off with our usual cappuccino. It was a very pleasant evening with general chatting leaving us both feeling a lot better about the pending op. We were home about half eight where we watched TV with Hubby having a last drink just before ten.
Wednesday morning we were up before five to get ready for the hospital. After having my morning coffee I fed the dogs and we were on the way just after half five. It was still dark and I was most surprised to find the highway already busy. The amount of people on the way to work so early is surprising – it must make for a very long day. The streets of Alberton were also very busy. We checked in at the hospital on the dot of six. Reception organised Hubby’s file and he had some last minute signing of forms to do. While they were finishing off he left me to collect the file while he went for a quick trip to the gents. When he came out I was waiting with his file and we went round the corner to Section Five to get admitted. There was no-one at the desk and no sign to state if this was Section Five so when I saw a Sister down the passage I asked her if this was the right place. It was and she came to take the file from me telling us to follow her. We were led into a ward with four beds. Two were occupied by ladies still sleeping. I was surprised and thought that they must have mixed wards now. Hubby sat on the bed indicated while she left with the file. Next thing she was back with another Sister apologising as she had thought I was the one being admitted. We were taken to the other side of the section where Hubby was put in a room with only the one bed. He was very thankful as he had also thought he was to be in a mixed ward. He was told to put on the gown and disposables and get into bed for the necessary check-ups. They must have found the biggest pair of disposables possible and the smallest size gown. The gown only just managed to tie at the back and was a real mini. While the Sisters were still busy taking his vitals the theatre staff came for him only to be told they weren’t quite finished. They disappeared and still hadn’t come back when he was all finished. We waited a while before they came back. They organised the bed and pushed it towards the door. The Sister said it wouldn’t fit through the door but they were sure it would. Sure enough the Sister was right so they pushed the bed back and reorganised it before disappearing to fetch a trolley. Hubby said he could walk but they said he couldn’t do that and they wouldn’t be long. While we were waiting for them to return the Dr arrived to say Hi and see why he wasn’t in theatre yet. We explained things which did not impress him at all and as he left the room to see where they were Hubby said it wasn’t a problem for him to walk there. The Dr was in a rush so told him `Come’ and off they went meeting up with the trolley at the end of the passage. Hubby climbed on and they disappeared into the lift. It was now ten past seven and as the cafeteria was open I went in for some breakfast. I had a bacon and egg breakfast with coffee before going back to Hubby’s room to wait for him to come out. Seeing as both feet were being worked on I expected him to be quite a while. But I was pleasantly surprised when they pushed him back in at eight fifteen. He was sitting up chatting and laughing with them. They put him back into his bed and disappeared with the trolley. The first thing Hubby did was make me get his pyjamas so he could take the gown and disposables off. Both his feet were completely covered in a thick bandage and he was convinced the Dr hadn’t removed his toe as he could feel it there. He prodded at the bandage and was relieved to feel it was gone. The Sisters came to see how he was and to see if he needed painkillers. He was fine and didn’t need anything yet so they disappeared after telling him he would only be allowed out of bed tomorrow. No sooner had they left when another Sister appeared with some breakfast for him. He was delighted and tucked in to a bacon and egg breakfast with yoghurt on the side. Once breakfast was over he wanted to get up and go to the loo. He insisted I push the drip stand around to the other side of his bed so he could walk off with it. Luckily his ward had its own loo so it was only a few steps for him to hobble along. I spent the morning with him waiting for the Dr to come to hear how long he must stay off work etc. His lunch came around twelve and Gino popped in to visit just after. I left just before one to go home quickly to see to the dogs and feed the gardener. It was three when I got back and the Dr still hadn’t been. Godfrey came in to visit just after four and we sat chatting until they rang the bell at about four forty five. I left to go and pick Diane up from work. She finished at five and we decided to go down to Mike’s Kitchen and have something to eat before going back to the hospital. We were both very thirsty as it had been a hot day and had shandies before having something to eat. Diane had a mushroom starter followed by a chocolate mousse while I had a calamari and rice starter followed by a cheesecake. Both were delicious. It was half six when we got back to the hospital to find Godfrey was still there. Hubby said the Dr had been to see him. With the amputation the remaining skin was not in too good a condition so instead of a neat stitching up he has left it partly open to help with the drainage. On the second foot the infection was worse than suspected and he had to cut more than expected. All we can do now is monitor carefully and hope for the best. The Dr was not too happy to hear that Hubby had been up to the loo and said that that was the limit to his walking as he MUST stay off his feet if he wants to heal. The Stubborn Man had better do as he is told. I just know we are going to have clashes once he is home as he can’t handle lying around doing nothing. He is already planning on making extensions on his clutch and making a piece on the back of the mini-trail starter pedal so he can use his heel to start and not toes. What do you do with such a Stubborn Twit? I can see fun and games lie ahead!
Doug arrived soon after and we had a merry visiting hour. Diane and I left half seven and after dropping her off I got home to a noisy reception from the dogs. I spent the evening watching TV and starting the blog.
Bye for now. All the messages and calls are greatly appreciated

Blue Monday

Hubby was still not feeling too good so stayed in bed. Diane took herself into Alberton and I made arrangements to fetch her car later. I was going in with Hubby as he had a Drs appointment at half one – the appointment Dennis had arranged with the neuro surgeon. I spent the morning doing office work and finishing off July on the computer ready for this month’s invoicing and statements. Diane phoned about eleven to see what time we were going in as she needed her discs again. When she heard it was only after twelve she decided to come and get them as she needed them urgently. I quickly organised some lunch for Hubby so that he could take her back and save me going in. This way her car was here and I could carry on and finish my computer work. Hubby was just finishing eating when she arrived and they left not long after. I finished my computer work and was sitting playing computer games when Hubby phoned with the news that his toe needed to be amputated and the other foot ulcer needed cutting and cleaning up. I was shocked and almost burst into tears when he told me but I didn’t want him to upset him. He asked me to contact the medical aid for authorisation as the Dr. Would wanted to do it on Wednesday. I made all the necessary calls and got everything sorted out for his op. This was the last thing I had expected as we had been discussing amputation after Dennis visited him and why Drs don’t like to go that far and only do it as a last resort. Diabetics do not have a good result in this type of thing. I couldn’t settle to anything after dealing with the op and actually felt quite sick. Hubby was home about six and explained why it needs to be done. Apparently the infection in his left toe spread through to the bone covering and destroyed it leaving the toe only being held on by sinew and the bone ends are rubbing together. He is lucky in not having feeling in his feet as he would be climbing the walls with the pain. If left the toe will develop gangrene which will be very dangerous. Not nice at all. We had supper and I gave Hubby a hot toddy as he was still not feeling too good with his throat and flu. I asked him if he had told the Dr he is sick with flu and he just said he will be fine. MEN! We spent the evening watching TV, reading and avoiding the subject of his op.
Neither of us slept well and after a restless night I was up just after six. After making breakfast we had a talk about things. Hubby said he is not worried about the op but what happens after. I told him that when his leg had been broken the Drs didn’t think it would heal, but, working together, controlling his diet to keep his sugar levels down, we achieved our goal and the leg healed perfectly. We did it before and we will do it again. Hubby also said he is sure that they will need to cut off more than just the toe for it to heal properly and he has already decided that he will make an artificial foot himself as he is more than capable. All we can do is hope and pray. Both Ali and Diane are very upset with Ali wanting to come to the hospital but we have both told her not to. Both boys are sick and it wouldn’t be fair to them to come there. Hubby left to go in to the workshop for last minutes instructions and I took Digby in for his parlour appointment. He is sooo dirty and his fur is so long now he desperately needs it. I spent the morning doing some cleaning and quickly went to Meyerton to collect Hubby’s injections and get him some pyjamas for his two day stay in hospital before collecting Digby. He really looked so good – all clean and white again with little blue ribbons. Hubby was home early to have a rest and a hot toddy. I am really worried about his chest with the anaesthetic but he wants it over with and insists he will be fine. I have worried myself sick every time he has had an op and he always comes through smiling. He is a stubborn idiot but he is my stubborn idiot and that makes me happy. Well all for now. I will keep you posted on the latest news.

Our Weekend

Diane and I were up fairly early and after spending time on the computer got ready for our day out. Hubby left just before us in the Sunbeam for his Tit Car Meet. Our first stop was Alberton where Diane got herself some black boots and a black jacket for work. Next stop was Alberton City where we took her cell phone in to get looked at as it has stopped working. While there we wandered around the shops looking at bicycles as Diane wants to get Travis one for his birthday. There was nothing worth getting so we left for Eastgate stopping at Julie with Diane’s things for the week ahead. She is only going through on Monday morning with Hubby so it was easier to take the things in advance – plus we have the weekend free without worrying about getting her things ready on Sunday. At Eastgate we booked our tickets for the Shrek movie before going to the Mugg & Bean for lunch. We had a delicious meal of wings and wedges for me and a wrap for Diane. She had a strawberry daiquiri while I had an iced coffee as I was thirsty and wine doesn’t help with that. We finished our meal in time for the movie which we both enjoyed. A light comedy is always good for a person! It was only half four when we came out so we went through some of the shops looking at bicycles – it is unbelievable what badly made bikes are sold – but found nothing suitable. Instead we went into Woolies for some stir-fry veg and a couple of lunches for Diane. It was nearly six when we left for home. Hubby had got home not long before us and had gone straight to bed as he felt ill with flu and a very bad throat. I dosed him up and Diane and I watched some TV before I made us a late supper. Hubby’s throat was too sore for him to eat. He asked me to phone Alex and let him know he wouldn’t be able to make his final Piston Ring Meet as a committee member, though they are keeping him as the Savva Liaison Officer still. I think he is the only one who doesn’t keep his mouth shut when it comes to matters affecting Old Car Owners.
Sunday morning I dosed Hubby again before seeing to the dogs. I was most upset to see how windy it was when I went out to see to them. The wind was whipping through the tree tops and there was dust everywhere. Most unpleasant. Late morning Hubby’s throat was feeling a bit better so I made him an omelette – easier to swallow than toast. Diane and I decided to wait until one so see if the wind would drop enough for us to go for our hike and watched Paranormal Activity while we waited for time to pass. What a lousy movie! I can’t understand why people don’t run away the minute something scary starts happening. I would have left the country if it was me never mind just leave the house. I can understand why Ali was so scared after watching it. Leith has forbidden her to watch any scary movies as she gets so paranoid afterwards and was convinced something had moved her shoe in the night. I’m sure one of them kicked it when they got up to see to Josh in the dark. The wind was still howling around at two so while Diane had a nap I read my book – am into reading Catherine Cooksen books I found that I hadn’t read before. Hubby was feeling a lot better after having a shower and seeing to his feet so at four Diane and I went down to Canterbury Arms for an outing. It was very pleasant sitting in the sun having spiced gold and coke. We ordered ourselves fried feta each and chips to share while we sat there enjoying our sheltered spot in the sun. It was about half five when we got home. Hubby was feeling rather hungry so I made him supper which he really enjoyed as his throat was feeling a lot better than it had. Diane and I watched some TV before she made us a late stir-fry – leaving some for work on Monday. She put the food into a container in the fridge with strict instructions to me to not touch it as she would take it out in the morning. Can’t say that I blame her.
Cheers and have a good week.

Woman's Day Week

Monday morning woke up to a miserable cold day. The cold front from the Cape had blown in. Not nice! Especially after having such good weather recently. After breakfast and seeing to the dogs I quickly went into Meyerton to get the repeat of Hubby’s medication seeing that he was on his last day of the current medication. When I got back Hubby was ready and waiting to go out somewhere for the public holiday and we left as soon as I was ready. We decided to go and check out the Decorex Exhibition where Diane was working stopping at Eastgate for lunch at our favourite – The Bread Basket. Lunch was our usual delicious cappuccino and ciabatta roll. After we had eaten we wandered around doing some shopping before heading off to the exhibition. Gallagher Estate was packed with five halls of exhibitors displaying some stunning things. We met Diane and after checking her stand she took a short break to get something to eat. Much to her disappointment they had nothing vegetarian so she ended up getting herself a couple of cheese straws with a hot chocolate. Sometimes I wonder how she manages on so little. After checking out some more of the exhibits Hubby went to rest his foot and I stayed talking to Diane in between people coming to their stand. We left around five for home stopping for petrol on the way. It is such a pleasure to use the highways on Public Holidays as the roads are so quiet. When we got home we had a cuppa before making supper and settling down for an evening of TV and reading. Tuesday was a really icy day with the overnight temp dropping down to -3 and day only 14. Horrible! I spent the day doing some cleaning (not much) with some office work thrown in. Most of the time was spent sitting in front of the lounge window in the sun reading my book and keeping warm. Diane phoned in the afternoon about discs she needed and decided she would come home for the night seeing as she hadn’t been able to come over the weekend. I finished my book and made sure her room was ready – It was – for her. Hubby was home early as he had his last Committee meeting for the Piston Ring and was getting picked up at half six. I made his supper while he showered and got ready. Supper was steak and as there were four pieces I put two into a container and put them back into the fridge. Diane wanted to go to the shop quickly when she arrived and said she would come to the gate for me. Hubby was backwards and forwards and I thought he had gone so when Diane arrived I ran out to tell her I was just going to grab my bag and then would come out. As I walked back to the house Hubby came out thinking it was his lift. I went back and was horrified to find the door locked. My keys and all were in the house. I told Hubby off for locking me out especially as his keys were also inside. He had thought I was inside. Thank goodness Diane had her keys and I got back in to fetch my bag. I was soo cross. Imagine if his lift had been there and Diane didn’t have keys. He would have gone off and not realised we were stuck outside. Anyway we left for the shop and he was gone when we got back with some snack food for Diane for the rest of the week. I quickly made a stir-fry with noodles for the two of us and kept some for Diane’s lunch at work on Wednesday. I put this into a plastic container in the fridge. After eating Diane sorted out her discs and bathed while I watched TV. We went to bed about half eleven where I read some more before putting out the light. Hubby was home about half twelve and very glad that he was resigning from the committee. His health is not so good anymore and being a committee member is a lot of hard work which he is finding difficult to cope with.
Wednesday was up before six to get Diane up and ready to leave early for work. It was another icy day with similar temperatures to those of Tuesday. Diane quickly put my pics from Saturday on the computer and resized them for the blog before leaving just after seven. To help her I put her things, including her lunch which I grabbed out of the fridge, into the car for her while she was on the computer. I spent the morning clearing washing and working on the computer. At lunchtime when I went to the fridge I was horrified to see Diane’s stir-fry inside and quickly sent an sms to apologise. I felt really bad as she must have been looking forward to her lunch and apologised again to her wondering what on earth I had given her. She phoned me and said the container had some horrible looking bloody mess inside. I couldn’t understand what it could be until I remembered the steak I had also put in the fridge. Poor Diane! What a shock for a vegetarian. I felt really, really bad.
Thursday morning I spent cleaning before going in to Alberton. To make things up to Diane I stopped first at her to give her stir-fry lunch. She enjoyed the food and I felt a lot better about my horrible mistake. We spent her lunch time chatting before I went round to the workshop to fetch Hubby to go down to Alberton City with me. Our first stop, naturally, was at the coffee shop where we had cappuccino and a savoury scone. That out the way we went shopping for a big shop as my cupboards are rather bare at the moment. I dropped Hubby back at the workshop before leaving for home to unpack everything before my daily dose of wine.
Friday the weather was still rather chilly with the day time temperatures warming slightly. The icy wind is what makes it unpleasant. We really have been plunged back into the depths of winter. A big shock after being able to wear short-sleeved tops the week before. I had a leisurely day of cleaning and reading sitting in the sun before Diane arrived to have a glass of wine with me. Our evening was spent chilling, eating supper and checking things on the computer. We are going to make up for her weekend of work .